Evaluating Relationship – Is It Worth Saving?

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Evaluating Relationship – Is It Worth Saving?

Ways To Save Relationship-Question Mark ImageEvaluating Your Relationship is an important step you must take before you can begin to work on saving it. The true question is, is this relationship worth saving? You must answer this question honestly. Besides having a game plan to save your relationship, an honest evaluation is also a must. An honest evaluation can be difficult for many reasons, such as:

1) Time can be a real truth killer. The more time you invest in the relationship, the deeper in denial you can tend to go. The longer you wait to evaluate the relationship, often times the less objective you will be. The goal here is to honestly analyze the good, the bad, and the ugly. Honestly being the keyword in the last sentence

Don’t just skip all of the bad parts about the relationship, just because you want to save it so badly. Seeing only what you want to see, I call having blinders on. It’s kind of like after you consume a lot of alcohol and you have beer goggles on……in both situations, you are not seeing the truth, you are dealing with a skewed reality. Few people will still have the strength to honestly admit that there might be a problem. Leave the pretending at the door and evaluate the relationship honestly.

2) If you are the cause of the relationship moving south, it might be difficult for you to honestly analyze the relationship. The best thing to do is accept responsibility for your part in the relationship.Forgive yourself if you need to, then move on and honestly analyze it.

An honest evaluation can be very difficult, however, make a deliberate attempt to write down all the reasons why the relationship is worth saving; and all the reasons why it is not worth saving. It doesn’t matter if you’ve been in a relationship for a while or if it’s newer, if it is worth saving, you will know (especially after honestly analyzing it ;) ). No matter what the potential outcome will be, now is the time to start evaluating your relationship, so you can move forward.

One of the most important things you can do to have a secure and fulfilling relationship is to honestly evaluate the strength of the relationship. Take your time and do it right. The old adage the sooner the better definitely applies here. The sooner you do the evaluation, the easier it will be to see things clearly.

The question remains, is this relationship worth saving? Complete your relationship evaluation, if the answer to this question is no, maybe it’s time to cut your losses and move on. If the answer is yes, and you are convinced it is worth saving, click here for a free book that will help you, just leave your email address for instant access.
**Have you been in a relationship that is or is not worth saving? How did it end up? Please leave your comments below!**

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